what to do when your spouse has bipolar disorder?

from day one my boyfriend said he had bipolar disorder i assumed he was just moody.
he hasn't been dignosed that i know of..
how can i tell if he's bipolar and what signs are there for this disorder?

he also becomes very hateful when he's going through his mood swings.
he'll say he hates me, wants me to move out, says i'm a slut... i was just curious if anything else has experinced this or anything like it and if it's normal..


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